Every generation claims dating was "simpler back then." But is it really that modern dating has collapsed, or have our expectations shifted with technology, social media, and changing gender roles?

Is commitment harder to find today, or do we just notice red flags faster?

Are dating apps helping people connect, or making relationships feel disposable?

Do men and women actually want different things now than they did 30 years ago, or have the rules always been shifting?

I’m curious to hear from different perspectives:

If you think dating is broken, what specifically is causing it?

If you think it’s just different, how have you adapted?

Let’s keep it respectful — but don’t be afraid to be blunt. Sometimes the most honest takes spark the best insights.